What is this event?

This event is dedicated to all the girlies who identify as such. It is a night out for chatting, sharing our experiences, and laughing over wine, fine bites and, for this edition, exotic tea blends. We are looking to create a safer space for all the women in our community where we can foster real friendship and kindness.

Since everyone will be there to socialize and have fun, we welcome Romanian and English speakers. You will find people to connect with no matter your language.

We also have an online community that you can join on FetLife, the kinky social network. You can join us online to see what the girlies chat about in their free time here.

To attend this event, the Consent Workshop attendance is not required.

📝 We confirm attendance 24 hours before the start of the event at the latest. Please register at least one day before the start of the event.

What happens at the event?

Join us for a delightful evening where we will discuss about the beautiful spectrum of femininity at our Girlies Night Out event! This isn’t just a party, it’s a journey into understanding and celebrating the diverse attributes that define us as women.

Our night will kick off with a fancy tea party, where you can sip on exotic tea blends and nibble on delightful treats. Throughout the evening, we’ll touch on what femininity means to each of us as the discussion theme will be “What is femininity?“. Inspired by the concept that femininity is a socially constructed set of characteristics varying from culture to culture, we invite you to share your thoughts and experiences in a supportive, open-hearted environment. To end our evening together, the floor will open for a dance party! Let loose and dance the night away, celebrating the strength, integrity, and multitudes of expressions of being a woman in today’s world.

„A socially constructed and learned set of characteristics, behaviours and mentality connected with girls and women, in general. For example, in a matriarchal society, “women” need to possess and display attributes of strength and integrity, as opposed to the submissive and dependent ones of a patriarchal society.” Published in Chapter: Gender and Sexuality in Toni Morrison’s Home. 

Evening schedule:

🕖 19:00 PM – 19:30 PM – We gather at InFLUX
🕣 19:30 PM – 00:00 AM – Exotic tea blends, wine, fine bites, discussions among us gals and dancing!

Please be on time, so as not to disturb other participants. We cannot guarantee that someone will be available to open the door for you after closing time.

How can you reach us?

🔥This event is hosted at InFLUX! 🔥

Our address is Bulevardul Theodor Pallady 287. You can find information on how to reach us here or here.

The area has many parking spaces, especially in the evening or after 6 pm. The metro station at “1 Decembrie 1918” is the closest to us and it’s only 8 minutes away, on foot.

Take the small elevator (behind the large stairs on the ground floor) to the 5th floor, where you will see the sign for InFLUX. One more flight of stairs up, and you’re there. If mobility issues prevent you from climbing up a flight of stairs, you can take the large elevator, which will take you straight to our door, but that one is much slower.

Our phone number is +40723258105 and you can write to us on WhatsApp before the door closing time.

Who can come?

If you identify as a woman, you are welcome to our women-only community.

🎫 Fill in the form below to register for this workshop. You will receive an email confirmation and we will keep you updated with information about the event. You will also receive an email reminder close to the event, so you don’t miss it.

We reserve the right to select event participants.

What are you bringing? What are you wearing?

From traditional tea dresses and floral skirts to pajama onesies and superhero capes, wear whatever makes you feel fabulous and true to your personal style!

🪪 Please bring your ID card so we can check your age at the door. We keep none of your data, but we need to make sure that everyone is an adult. You can see here or here how we check your ID so that all your data but your year of birth and picture are visible to us.

Who organizes this event?

Lulu envisions InFLUX as a haven where her Colgate smile and warm hugs become a language of welcome. A space where diversity is celebrated, compassion is a given, and education is an art. She is a feminist with an ever-open ear, a compassionate heart ready to listen, and the discerning eyes and ears that miss nothing—sharp as a hawk, keen as a fox. As Kitty’s versatile educational prop, Lulu is dedicated to strengthening the community, fostering new relationships, and challenging maladaptive stigmas and practices. Her artistry shines in her ability to weave knowledge with understanding, turning InFLUX into a canvas of continuous learning and growth.