What is this event?

In this class, we’ll discuss the negotiation of practical D/s dynamics, whether for a long-term relationship or a single play scene.

We’ll look at ways each partner can express their wants and needs, and how to collaborate in building a framework that works for both. The focus is on creating dynamics that are intentional, functional, and adaptable.

Topics include adding CNC elements, considerations for polyamory, and systems for checking in and renegotiating over time. We’ll explore how dynamics can grow and evolve while staying grounded in communication and mutual understanding.

This is a lecture and discussion-based workshop, with space for questions, reflection, and shared perspectives.

The emphasis is on creating sustainable dynamics that balance our fantasies of power exchange with the realities of day-to-day life.

🇬🇧 This event will be held only in English.

🔥We welcome participants from the Romanian (Bucharest & other cities) community and international participants! 🔥

To attend this event, you need to have attended a Consent Workshop or be vetted by someone from our community through the InFLUX code-sharing system.
If you’re new and someone is bringing you along using their InFLUX code, you can learn how this works here.

Who teaches at this event?

Mr O is a creative sadist with a love of medical play, a penchant for violent grappling scenes, and a very cute bum. Having spent over two decades as a jiu jitsu competitor and instructor, he has found ways to apply his knowledge of body mechanics to kinky play and shares that in his teaching. Active in the Canadian BDSM scene since 2005, he regularly puts on workshops internationally as well as locally in the Toronto, Montreal and Ottawa areas on subjects including wrestling, grappling and medical play. With an engineering based background and scientific mind, he is known for continually inventing new devices and ways to hurt people “for science”. When he’s not being nice he can be a bit mean. And vice versa.
Mr O believes strongly that successful scenes start with careful negotiation, and so teaches workshops and private classes on negotiation and consent.

ropeybunny is a playful, energetic and experimental masochist who is an active contributor to the Ottawa  and Montreal community.  Starting off with rope, she eventually discovered a love for medical play and all things scary. She often finds herself in painfully sadistic situations and is excited to share her passions with you. 
ropeybunny believes in fostering an atmosphere of open communication where bottoms can share their knowledge along side tops and enjoys teaching (and taking) classes that are co-taught.
She has been teaching locally and internationally since 2019 and performing since 2017.

What happens at the event?

Schedule with breaks that applies for both days:

15:00-15:30 – Doors open for the entrance of the participants
15:30-17:30 – Workshop

Please be on time so as not to disturb other participants. We cannot guarantee that someone will be available to open the door for you after closing time. We only accept on-time admissions to any events since you might miss important information.

Who can come?

This workshop is open to all levels of experience, including beginners.

As this is a lecture and discussion-based session, you are welcome to attend on your own. No partner is required, and there is no hands-on component needed to follow or benefit from the workshop.

Whether you’re exploring D/s for the first time or already navigating an existing dynamic, this space is open to anyone interested in building more intentional, communicative, and sustainable power exchange.

🌈 All bodies, genders, and orientations are warmly welcome.

🎫 Fill in the form below to register for this workshop. You will receive an email confirmation, and we will keep you updated with information about the event.

We reserve the right to select event participants.

Workshop participation fee

➜  ticket – 100 RON / 20€ per registration

The fee is per person. No partner is required to attend this workshop.

As this is a lecture session, all participants can engage through discussion, and Q&A.

In order to secure your place for this workshop, you need to pay half of the participation fee in advance. You will receive more details on how to complete the payment in the RSVP confirmation email.

What are you bringing? What are you wearing?

📤 Please bring your InFLUX card. Access to this event requires that you have either attended a Consent Workshop or have been vetted through the InFLUX code-sharing system. We will check this at the entrance.

You’re welcome to come dressed however you feel most comfortable. We recommend casual, relaxed clothing that allows you to settle in and focus on the workshop.

How can you reach us?

Our address is Bulevardul Theodor Pallady 287. You can find information on how to reach us here or here.

The area has many parking spaces, especially in the evening or after 6 pm. The metro station at “1 Decembrie 1918” is the closest to us and it’s only 8 minutes away, on foot.

Take the small elevator (it’s behind the large stairs on the ground floor) to the 5th floor, where you will see the sign for InFLUX. One more flight of stairs up, and you’re there. If mobility issues prevent you from climbing up a flight of stairs, you can take the large elevator, which will take you straight to our door, but that one is much slower.

Our phone number is +40723258105, and you can write to us on WhatsApp before the door-closing time.

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