Cozy Little Play-Date
An evening of fun
What is this event?
A night full of ropes, socialization and intimacy at InFLUX. This event is intended for those who are passionate about ropes and want to practice it in a safe environment or just for people who want to socialize, have fun and watch the magic as it unfolds.
Everyone is welcome to arrive starting at 19:30 and the doors will stay open until 20:30. The event will last up until 1:00.
Please do not be late beyond the announced time, so as not to disturb other participants.
How can you reach us?
Our address is Boulevard Theodor Pallady 287.
You can find information on how to reach us here: https://imgur.com/a/lIGMv8y
There are many parking spaces in the area, especially in the evening or after 6 pm.
Our elevator is currently not working. Until it is repaired, please take the stairs to the 5th floor where you will see the InFLUX sign.
Our phone number is +40723258105 and you can write to us on WhatsApp before the closing hours.
Who can come?
Anyone participating at the two-day workshop is welcome, as well as anyone from our community as long as you have attended our consent workshop. You no longer need confirmation, but we will check at the door if we have you on the list of participants for the consent workshop. It’s important to remember the number we assigned you when you attended the consent workshop.
We reserve the right to select event participants.
What are you bringing? What are you wearing?
Please avoid casual outfits if possible.
CONSENT AND BOUNDARIES. Don’t touch people without explicit consent. The same goes for people’s clothes, accessories, toys, and ropes. Also, do not rush or force anyone. Everyone moves at their own pace. Allow each individual to take their time.
LEAVE YOUR EGO AT THE DOOR. Do not assume anything about anyone – ask first! This is a safer space for everyone, no matter the gender identity or expression, sexual orientation, body shape, where they come from, or their ability or wish to switch roles or not. Discriminatory behavior or language will result in exclusion from the event.
PRIVACY. Do not reveal who you met at the event. Do not talk about what you heard or saw at the event.
NO UNSOLICITED ADVICE. You can share your experience in something, but never assume your experience is universally valid.
REPORT. If you notice that something is wrong, could be dangerous, or violates someone’s consent, please contact a member of staff. Please do not intervene yourself!
ACT AS IF THIS IS YOUR HOME AND RESPECT THE SPACE. Have respect for the space as it is. Be careful not to stain, break or destroy things. Treat this place as if it was your home and it will feel like a home to you. We want to keep it nice and cozy for as long as possible and we need your help.
IF YOU TELL US YOU WILL SHOW UP, SHOW UP. Make sure you make a commitment before reserving a spot. If it happens more than twice that you reserve a spot, but don’t show up, we will simply not put you on our lists anymore.
EVERYTHING STAYS INSIDE. Keep the play inside the space. Same goes for ropes and revealing outfits.
BE AWARE OF SURROUNDINGS. Be mindful of the noise. If someone is doing play near you, keep your voice down or gently step away at a distance that will allow play to happen without breaking the mood.
ONLY TAKE PHOTOS AT CERTAIN EVENTS AND ASK FOR EVERYONE’S CONSENT. At parties, no photos are allowed, except for the photo corner. Keep your phone in your pocket. At workshops and rope jams, you will be allowed to take pictures of your own work and the partener you have tied. But no people in the background! Not even if they are blurred!
LIMIT ALCOHOL INTAKE. We believe that no one can fully give consent without being in control of their unaltered senses. We strongly encourage you to limit the use of alcohol or any other judgment-impairing substances.
NO SMOKING AREA. Please keep smoking to a minimum and only in front of the venue. Make sure the door is closed so that the smoke doesn’t get inside the space. The same goes for electronic cigarettes.
* Breaking the rules leads to:
1. Warning. If the violation continues:
2. Taking out of the space the person who violated the rule. If the violation continues:
3. Prohibition of access to events in the future
*Breach of consent will result in immediate exclusion, unless the person whose consent was breached wishes otherwise.*