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25 January, 2023

First Aid for Rope – What to do in case things go bad during rope-play

This week’s article is meant to come in handy if and when something bad or unexpected happens during rope play.
18 January, 2023

The Crucial Ingredient For Mind-blowing Play (And Why Most Tops Don’t Have It)

Every bottom can smell a good top from a mile away. And we don’t mean the guys with the skills. Skills are nice and all, but many have all the skills and lack the essence.
11 January, 2023

Rope-bottom bag – What to have on you when getting tied

Some rope events can require serious packing. We thought we’d help you with some lists to keep you stocked up on everything necessary.
4 January, 2023

How to find yourself a good rigger

Do you sometimes look longingly at the pictures on a rigger’s profile and think how nice it would be to get tied by them? We thought we’d give you some pointers to set apart the good, the bad and the downright ugly.
28 December, 2022

Guide for Getting Butt Naked in Subzero Temperatures

As the cold weather has arrived, we thought this article would be most fitting. Here are our suggestions: 1. Preparation is key. Being outside in very […]
13 December, 2022

List of Shibari Terms for the Beginner

Starting out in shibari can be quite intimidating, especially since you don’t know the proper terms for things...
18 October, 2022

How to keep your super-kinkster identity a secret

For those of you who are part of alternative communities, whose passions or lifestyles are not widely accepted by society, anonymity is important. If information about […]